"... dapat siya ang maunang magparamdam..."
"... dapat tahimik, misteryoso ang dating ko at dalagang Pilipina... "
"... di ko muna siya sasagutin dapat hard to get ako..."
"... di dapat madaldal, baka akalain n'ya nagger ako, maturn off..."
"... ang manliligaw dapat meron dalang regalo... kung wala, wag ka na umasa, Dong "
"... magsuot ako tight jeans, miniskirt, susuot ng mga sexy damit at mabihag ko siya sa aking kaseksihan at kagandahan"
"... pango??? pa panoselift ka na... "
"... Overweight... magpapayat na ako, huhuhu"
"... lalaki ka, dapat ikaw ang magbabayad ng kinain natin..."

Nakakahiya man aminin, maraming babae na ganyan saan sulok ng daigdig...(isa na ako dun dati!). These weren't the rules for hapiness - they were the rules for messing up your lovelife! These are the old rules heard from your mother, relatives, or even friends. Practicing the OLD rules can sabotage your self esteem and take away your real power in relationships. You don't have to pretend, play games, hide the thruth, or put on an act. When you truly love and respect yourself you don't hide parts of your personality from a man. So don't have to lie about your feelings by acting mysterious and "pa demure" epek.

So the tendency you will act somebody that you are not. Ang hirap ng ganun unless kung magaling kang magdala at artistahin ka. You will never develop true confidence since your love based on NOT behaving naturally at NOT being yourself, you'll never feel relaxed or trust his love for you. Diyan na pumapasok ang SELOS...

IS this the kind of woman you want to become???

• You cant reveal to much about what you are, or he'll get turned off
• You can't show your true feelings , or he'll lose interest.
• You can't be too honest, or he'll become bored with you.
• You have to looked unattainable . Then, because he thinks he can't have you, he'll want you, ang you've got him.